The people I've seen navigate radical change well have one thing in common: they decide before they have all the information, and they stay flexible enough to update. Ideologues do the opposite. They wait until the framework confirms the decision, which means they either never decide or they decide long after the window closed. The framework becomes a way to avoid commitment without looking like you're avoiding it. A working parallel system makes real decisions: what goes on the network, who gets access, what happens when the outside world applies pressure. Every one of these requires people to take actual responsibility for the outcome. That's the filter: the ones who can decide without certainty and live with the consequences. Those are the ones you can build with. Everyone else is waiting for someone to decide for them, and they'll accept whoever does.