Might as well #asknostr. M, 37, Well employed all my life, fit. Topic: Getting any woman to say yes to a date. I have never been on a first date, not that I haven't tried anything/everything. My standards are simple no single moms(widows excluded), not fat/proportional to my weight 170lb not rude/disrespectful. Dating History: est 500 cold approaches, 5-6 asking the friend groups(just got shunded and shit talked behind my back, Vets are worse than highschool), 1500 rejections from dating apps. Personal History: Veteran, Tech worker, Right-wing(not crazy shit). No Drugs or Alcohol, Partying, Fiscally Conservative. I already doubt I will receive anything but "generalized advice" but on the off chance, I post. At worst I'll laugh at the creative put downs. I am sure I will just walk this life alone every Organization has let me down, ever "friend" I thought I had just randomly cuts ties or flat out stabs me in the back(Btw I know not to talk about this irl to people, I'm alone not stupid) I can't help but assume I am just ugly looks wise or just easy to pick on irl once I open up a bit. Either way feels good to at least type this out and acknowledge my pain in writing and the slightest potential someone will at least see my pain for once. I'm sick of sacrificing for nothing meaningful in return. The War I almost died in was a lie. #Dating.