Get a VPS with anon payments from with a dedicated IP and install headscale or Tailscale and make the VPS the exit. or there is Hydraveil by stupid simple approach. But then you need scrap / change your tech to Linux and degoogled phone by using on a Pixel. You can store your photos on a home umbrel server (old computer) with Immich. Simplex for private messages. Syncthing for syncing files between devices. Proton for email. Nostr for social media, Invidious for youtube or freetube I'm sure many people on here will have other alternatives to google or Apple apps that will require age verification. I mean its a bit of a rabbit hole but once you get there.. they is the new normal and there is no looking back.. Anyone reading this, if you have other suggestions please share.